Weddings; the Classic Mistakes
By Jo Phillips
Classic Mistakes People Often Make With Their Weddings
It goes without saying that you’re going to want everything to be perfect on your wedding day. A lot of people have been thinking about this moment for most of their lives. You’ll have big ideas and a list of those little touches that you’ve absolutely got to have. Unfortunately, there are several classic mistakes that can turn a perfect day into something a little less than ideal. The good news is that these blunders are often avoidable. There are lots of ways that you can steer clear of them with a little preparation.
Not Setting A Budget
Let’s start with the biggest, shall we? The cost-of-living crisis has made everyone painfully aware of exactly how much they’re spending and what they’ve got left in the bank. You are absolutely going to have to set a budget if you want your wedding to go off without a hitch (pun intended). It’s a huge understatement to say that weddings can be expensive. There are so many different things that you’re going to have to pay for, from the venue and catering to clothes and photography. You’re going to need to sit down and work out exactly how much you’ve got to play with before you commit to anything. Even the napkins! You’ll be able to prioritise your need and want list once you’ve got your budget sorted.
Over-Inviting Wedding Guests
This is a textbook mistake, and it can seriously impact your budget. Now, of course, you’re going to want to invite everyone. But you’ve got to remember that each guest comes with a cost. The more guests, the more food, drink, and space will be required. You can’t fit every friend and relative in if your dream venue is small and intimate. It’s not easy whittling down your guest list. You don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings. But at a certain point, you’re going to have to draw the line.
Not Thinking About The Drinks Reception
While the wedding ceremony and reception are the main events of the day, couples should also consider the drinks reception. This is the time between the ceremony and the reception when guests mingle and socialize. It’s also the time when you and your partner will disappear for a bit.
One classic mistake people make is not providing enough drinks during the reception. This can lead to long queues and unhappy guests. Couples should ensure there are enough bartenders and drinks available to keep everyone satisfied. But you’re also going to need to think about entertainment. It’s easy to forget how tough it can be to keep the positive vibes going during this awkward period, so you’re going to need the perfect icebreaker. A wedding magician is the perfect choice to keep everyone entertained and it will certainly be unforgettable. Adam Vee is a veteran of stage and screen with close-up magic skills and celebrity stories that are sure to make him a hit at any wedding. Check out his website to see his videos and testimonials.
Not Hiring A Professional Photographer
Weddings are a once-in-a-lifetime event, and you’re going to want to capture every moment. It can be tempting to ask a friend or family member to take photos but trust us: you’re going to want to bring in a pro. A professional will have the equipment and experience necessary to capture high-quality images of the day. You should also think about the style of the photos that you want. Do you want classic and staged, or something a little more natural and fun? You should always sit down with the photographer ahead of time to make sure that you’re on the same page.
Ignoring The Weather
You can’t afford to overlook the weather if you’re getting married in the UK. Now, you can’t control the weather but you can certainly plan for it. A lot of couples dream about getting married outside, the sun shining down on their perfect day. But you need to have a backup plan in case storm clouds arrive. There have been more and more instances of extreme weather in the UK and things can get nasty very quickly. They should also consider the temperature and provide appropriate clothing and shelter for their guests. You won’t have forgotten about the record-breaking heatwave last summer. Make sure that you’ve got plenty of water for your guests and somewhere they can go to get out of the sun.
Not Having A Clear Timeline
A wedding day can be chaotic, with multiple events happening at once. It’s important to have a clear timeline for the day to ensure everything runs smoothly. Couples should create a timeline that includes the ceremony, reception, speeches, and any other events they’ve planned. You can then share it with everyone who needs to know. It’s also probably a good idea to get a wedding planner involved. This doesn’t always sound that appealing, especially if you’ve got a crystal-clear idea of what you want. But let’s face it. You don’t want to be running around on the day checking every last little detail. Hiring a wedding planner takes a lot of the aggravation off your plate, whether that’s chasing caterers or making sure that the band is ready to go. They may also have some ideas that you hadn’t thought of.
Not Considering The Guests
While the wedding is about the couple, it’s also important to consider the guests. Couples should ensure their guests are comfortable and have everything they need. This includes providing appropriate seating, food, and drink. Couples should also consider the location and accessibility of their venue to ensure their guests can easily get there. There’s already been so much travel disruption this year so don’t forget to offer lots of public transport options. You know that you’re never going to be able to please everyone. However, you need to think about what information you can give them to make sure that everyone can get there safe and sound if you want to make sure that everyone has the best time possible. That means having a list of hotels, taxi numbers, public transport options and so forth.