Fashion Tips for Standing Out Without Overdoing it on Dates
By Jo Phillips
Those who stand out without overdoing it on dates have discovered their personal style. What defines personal clothing style? Research suggests it is self-knowledge, consistency, and an enduring sense of comfort. The personal style also helps people fulfil their creative potential.
For men
The first trick is to keep things simple. Start with a dress shirt and a versatile pair of khakis for a casual date or a pair of dark trousers for a dinner date.
Dress for your body shape
Clothes shouldn’t fight but flatter the body shape. Black isn’t necessarily slimming, which isn’t to say one should avoid it. 64% of people associate the absence of colour with power, authority, and social clout.
Dress age-appropriately
Looking good for your age is far more important than looking young. What’s more, the majority (59%) of adults over 50 believe they look younger than other people their age as of 2024.
Flashiness does not guarantee a positive date outcome, and that goes for men of all ages. Yes, peacocking is a thing, but name brands and showiness shouldn’t be relied on beyond an icebreaker. They can work well for that.
Get signature pieces
Every man should have an elegant pair of shoes, a dark-coloured suit, and a watch, even if it’s an older model.
Choose the right fit
A cheap suit that fits well looks much better than an expensive one that doesn’t. See a tailor if your sleeves are too long, and don’t wear pants or jeans that are too long under any circumstances.
Don’t buy clothes online. According to a recent survey, 91% of consumers who purchase clothes online are dissatisfied with the fit. They end up returning items because they don’t have access to a tailor. Alternatively, they stow away the clothes in their closet, contributing to the clutter. The average clothing item is only worn seven times, and people get stuck in a cycle of buying new clothes to fill the void.
Invest in elegant and comfortable shoes
Comfortable does not have to mean visually unappealing. You won’t go wrong with a classic pair of leather loafers.
For women
A century ago, a woman owned 34 items of clothing on average. In 2024, that number has reached 120. If the clutter has become overwhelming, it’s time to reorganize and get rid of stuff you never wear.
Use the same shade throughout your outfit
You can put a date outfit together using the same shade. This can be done with all kinds of tones, not just neutral shades. If you don’t like the tone-on-tone look, try using slightly different shades of the same color.
Take the weather into account
The weather is not bad; our clothes can be unsuitable. The climate is changeable, and the weather is often unpredictable. Check the forecast on the day of the date and choose your clothing accordingly.
Add a belt
Any outfit will look more put-together when you add the right accessory. A belt can balance a look that doesn’t work every time, like a cashmere pullover and a long, flowing skirt. An added bonus is that it elongates the silhouette.
Final thoughts
Standing out on a date without overdoing it is all about finding the balance between expressing your personality and subtle sophistication. Focus on well-fitted clothing, choosing a signature piece, and paying attention to the details. Confidence is your best accessory, and it naturally shines through when you feel comfortable and true to yourself. Dress to feel good, let your personality lead, and you’ll be sure to leave a lasting impression that’s as genuine as it is stylish.
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